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I think views of love and marriage are the consequences paid for the way men have been treated, at least in America, over the last part of the 20th century. Judges thought it funny to abuse men in divorce cases rendering unfair judgments. While that has changed, many men rather just live with someone, or even play around and not risk their homes and property by allowing themselves to be tied up in marriage.
@naughtymc1986 I think the fabric of society has been forever changed.
@naughtymc1986 you've just read my mind totally. Trust is a big thing in life. You've described me. I know too many guys who have been scammed... 💋
In Australia 🇦🇺 if you have been living with a woman for 12 months or more in a relationship, she is entitled to a share of your wealth !!! You do not have to be married for that to occur!!!
@Strezlecki well smart men will realize and adjust… living alone is great!
@Strezlecki, @naughtymc1986 I am older and live in the present. I’ve adjusted and find fwb relationships are the way to go! We split the bill when we eat out and any woman unwilling to do that isn’t for me…quite simple, really. Men who cling to the 1950s deserve what they get!
@naughtymc1986, @Strezlecki Does it work both ways? What if the woman has the wealth in a relationship?
@Strezlecki, @naughtymc1986 I think things have changed now more or less. I had an amicable divorce and things were reasonably fair. But it wasn’t for many before me!
Lili_th,
I think its not at all, simple yes or no. Technology has stepped into everything surrounding our lives and "gotten in the way."
We had time to kill before sleep, not for effort but we just couldn't go to sleep. I flipped through Netflix, I think, and found a movie based upon the book, "The Secret ". After watching the movie I'm reading the book and now I am realizing fundamental love has been overcome by no longer paying attention to our natural instincts. Just my humble opinion but tomorrow is Sunday and I am going to go back to Church.
Brilliant topic, thanks for sharing. We need more such thought.
Doc
Love will sneak up on you, and then you will be confused. Lol
Luv is fickle, but, can absolutely be lifetime lasting, even several lifetimes ... luv, not lust, which is fleeting and so not worth a few orgasms ...
Technology has amped up people connecting that would have never been able to otherwise. It's also led to more unfaithfulness - both men and women. So many couples stay together for kids, financial reasons ... living a lie is isn't living ... it's a bandaid ... and, eventually, the bandaid peels off. When you lose everything, look in the mirror as to why.
Some people do get off on cheating, which is fine ... however, two words they should never use to describe themselves are LOYAL and HONEST ... cause that makes them a stone cold LIAR ...
I truly think that this is now the 'norm' for both men and women. Society has taken a 'Throw Away' attitude of use it and toss it away when you're done towards everything, including intimacy and relationships. Convenience has been prioritized over long term comfort and commitment.
Thanks lili 💓 a very interesting article. 😊 And I see all the replies 🤣 😂 you are receiving, you have sparked plenty of interest. The replies are good 👍 👌 reads also.!!! 💋 💄 👄
No such thing as lo__!!! 🐺😇
Sad but true
The publication of this post tends to prove that at least one person would answer "no".
Easy to be hurt if love